Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Monday, December 1, 2014

3 Steps to getting over Comparison



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I often find myself comparing myself against others. Constantly wondering how in the world do I get to where they are. Whether its a another blogger or an artist, I am compare my beginning to their middle. Its as though I have blinders on and only see the end result of other peoples hard work and efforts, rather than the full picture. 

So when I go to attempt something like blogging or calligraphy I compare myself in the beginning and get really discouraged because I am not as good as the people I look up to. Then I take  the easy route and give up on what I was working on when the task (ie this blog)

This past month I discovered that its really not about comparison but starting. Starting and remember every small step you take will bring you that much closer to the success you want. 

Here's 3 steps I use to getting over my comparison need.

1. Start, post your first post, film your first video, start on that project
2. If you're tempted to compare yourself, start at their beginning, whether it be their first blog post, video or artistic piece. 
3. Just keep on going and remember that you making progress everyday you put in time.

With that I want to make an announcement, I recently launch a new site:
granted I still have a lot of work to do, ie put up my items. But I thought it was approiate to show the progress I have made on it so far. I never thought I would be this close to launching something. Ill make an official announcement soon but for now you can find my blog post there under "rambles"

Thats all for today, 

Cheers, Jennife



Wednesday, January 8, 2014

New Year, New Resolutions !




Happy First Week of 2014 !

This year feels different to me, with everything coming up I can't wait to get start on everything I want to do and go everywhere I planned on going. 2014 will definitely be a year full of new beginnings, new adventures, new starts, new fears and new set backs. 

This year I will be:
1. Graduating University
2. Travelling to Europe and Asia 
3. Starting a Career (Hopefully)

2013 was definitely a character building year, I learned a lot about myself and what I want out of life and although there were some terrible lows, there was also wonderful highs and as much as I want to forget some moments, Im glad they happened because they taught me so many unforgettable lessons. 

But with the New Year upon us, I wanted to share some of my resolutions.

1. Get Healthy & Be Fit
I already know, can I get anymore cliche? But this is a goal I've been working on since the end of the 2013 and one I am really serious about. The truth is I am not a teenager anymore and my body cannot handle the things I put it under anymore and it needs to change. 

2. Travel 
I always want to travel, but I always make excuses not to. With graduation in the near future I plan to take a few months off to truly see the world.

3. Show Gratitude
I truly believe in the statement "Gratitude turns what we have into enough" and I need to remember that statement more. 


What are your Resolutions ?

Cheers,
Jennifer